Five Ways For A Married Couple To Keep The Naughty Sparkle On

Married life is fun, for those who know how to manage it. And one of the biggest issues with most couples is routine. Routine can make everything feel less and less entertaining, to the point where you don’t even bother doing it anymore. I’m talking about sex, of course. And the married couples who have most fun are those who master the art of keeping sex alive in the relationship. I don’t know if you noticed, but the swinging couples seem to be the happiest out there. Now, I’m not saying that you should start swinging. It’s not for everyone. But there are so many other things that you can do to keep the naughty sparkle on. And that’s what we’ll discuss in the following paragraphs.

Introducing Sex Toys

The easiest and quickest way of enhancing the pleasures and making things interesting again is introducing sex toys in the bedroom. But you must be careful with it. Especially if you are a man buying for your lady. What most men don’t understand is that the toys they see in porn are not the toys ladies like in their private life. You need to take it easy and go steady from there. The best toy that you can buy for your lady is a magic wand. That’s a vibrator meant for her clitoris. It’s easier to get used to the idea of a sex toy if it doesn’t involve penetration with it. And let me assure you that the pleasures offered by a magic wand will open up your lady’s mind for numerous new toys. 

Watching Porn Together

The art of watching porn together as a couple should be normalized. Let’s face it! Men watch porn and women watch porn just as much. But not all couples find the balance they need to watch porn together. And once again, the equilibrium is disturbed by men. What you need to know when trying to watch porn with your wife and girlfriend is that men and women have different kinds of porn. What you like might be a turn off for your lady. But get this! What she likes will never be a turn off for you. So, next time you watch porn, let your lady choose what to watch. You’ll have a great time.

Oral Sex Mastering

Oral sex tends to be ignored as years go by in a relationship. And it’s usually the men who stop giving their ladies oral pleasure. You should focus on oral sex just as much as you focus on the sex itself. More than that, you should have contacts in which you only offer your partner an oral orgasm. Sometimes, we don’t feel like having sex. But we feel like having an orgasm. Normalize asking your partner for some oral pleasure. And as a man, you should prepare doing it for your lady without asking for anything in return. If you really need to cum when pleasuring your woman, you can just jerk off at the same time.

Anal Sex Exploration

Anal sex exploration is an amazing way of opening new doors for pleasure. It is fun for both parties if done right. What you need to know about women is that you have to take it slow. Oral warmup, fingering and good lubrication will make the difference between a painful experience she endures for your sake and an anal orgasm that will make her ask for more next time. At the same time, you should also consider the pleasures you can get through your back door as a man. Lots of ladies are excited for the idea of giving their partners a prostate massage. And no, it’s not gay if a lady does it to you.

So, there you have it. Four simple ways of instantly making things fun again in the bedroom. Just don’t try them all at once. I suggest exploring with these techniques in the order I presented them. You’ll see the magic happen from the first try.